fitness tips with heart

A Proud Moment

I got a GREAT response to an email that I sent out yesterday. I was scared about sending it because I was putting myself out to someone I admire to see about a professional partnership. 

It took all my focus in that moment to compose and hit send. My brain was saying all kinds of stuff, can you imagine?

“Who do you think you are? He’ll never want to do anything with you. What do you know anyway? Just do it tomorrow”…and on and on.

I know to expect this from my brain. And I don’t let it take me out. I don’t argue with it. I just keep my eye on the prize.

The prize for me is wanting to reach the people that are waiting for me. Here’s what I mean by that. I have great programs for folks who are tired of feeling tired, sluggish and unattractive in their bodies. I help them gain strength and stamina to live the life they were meant to live. And I do that with a gentle, joyous fitness approach with no judgement on their size or shape. 

If I want to reach “my” people, then I have to put myself out there, It’s good to have a proud moment.

What is your latest PROUD moment?

Thanks and love, Cinder

That Angel, it was me

“I’m dying, would you please sing at my funeral?”  A couple months ago I sang at my friend’s mother’s memorial service. I do that, and frankly I’m quite good. After the service a woman I never met before asked me that question. What do you say to someone with that kind of courage? Yes of course.

Yesterday I sang at this woman’s memorial. I barely knew her name. As I opened the service at a lovely chapel in Oakland CA, my voice rang with the sound of a room filled with spirit. In that moment I realized I was the angel this courageous women put in the room for her family and friends. She and I had collaborated to bring comfort to her loved ones.

That angel, it was me, I am blessed by doing service.

With gratitude and awe for life,

Cinder 

Here are some exercises that can be done anywhere; all you need is a kitchen chair, a wall, and your body. All the exercises that are here will support your body in being more active and pain free. Start with just the weight of your own body, and then add some light dumbbells when that becomes easy.

The Miracle Knee Exercise-(yes, it really is!). Ready? Sit up tall and straight on the edge of your chair. Extend your legs out in front of you, heels on the floor, toes pointing to the ceiling. Straighten your legs really hard so that the muscles in the front of your thighs (your quads) squeeze. Hold that contraction, and at the same time squeeze the cheeks of your butt together. Hold everything for two seconds. You must breathe while you do this. Counting out loud is a good way to train yourself to breathe during a sustained contraction. Repeat twice.

The Standing Swimmer (this can be done sitting, and then it’s called The Sitting Swimmer, ha)-This exercise is great for your posture because it strengthens your upper back and stretches your chest. Stand with your back against the wall, and your feet in front of you about six inches from the wall. Bend your knees slightly, and squeeze your butt. Hold your abdominal muscles tight by doing a pelvic tilt to get the small of your back as close to the wall as possible. Next get the back/lower part of your head as close to the wall as possible with your chin in neutral (not tilted up or down). This is the starting position, and can by itself sometimes feel like a lot of work. If it already feels like a lot of work, rest for a moment, then do it again. You can add this next part in when the starting position gets comfortable, or do the sitting swimmer instead. When you are comfortable in the starting position, raise your straight, right arm towards the ceiling, the back of your hand may or may not touch the wall. Your left arm is hanging at your side, palm towards the wall. Okay switch arms. Repeat two times with each arm.

The Standing Double Arm Swimmer- Same as above, but two arms come up and go down together. Can be done sitting or standing.

Bonus: for those who don’t like to sweat, you can do these slow and easy and not break a sweat, woo hoo!

Fitness or Health?

Did you know that fitness is just one component of health? What are some others? Nutrition of course, but less obvious is interacting with family or people you love. Doing volunteer work, giving back in some way is a component of health. Relaxing and having fun is necessary to be healthy. Little things like wearing your seat belt and flossing your teeth. Reading and learning and growing…components of health.

I have worked with clients in a popular SF gym for almost 25 years with a gentle attitude toward fitness. I am the exception to the rule. I help my clients find middle ground. Where is your middle ground? What do you need to make room for to be healthy in a holistic way?

Fitness tip for today: Have you ever tried a kitchen dance? Why not now?

Thanks and love, Cinder

Couch Quarterback Exerciser

I told you on Sunday that if you root for your team with exuberance it counts as exercise. Yay. Then I noticed that 3/4 of the way through the 49er’s game I was not rooting with exuberance.  I was just lying prone with stress picking out everything that was going wrong. (That included picking on my couch mate who was rooting for the Giants for crying out loud.)

After I noticed I was lying like a log, I decided to practice what I preach. I made up some cool couch exercise you can do while prone. Then I did them and I felt much better about the game and my honey. I swear the smallest amount of exercise can give you a lift and a shift.

Next time you are lying on the couch feeling grouchy try the “Air Leg Press”. Lie on your back, knees bent. Put one knee towards your chest, straighten the leg a bit, bend it again, then put it down, then switch. There are many variations of this movement you can do. Make sure you engage your abs and play around with it. I even did ballet feet and dead bugs.

Do you have a couch exercise that you do? You can train for Superbowl Sunday, ha.

Thanks and love, Cinder

Go 49ers

I have a confession to make. I’m a Raiders fan. 

If you know me, you know I am a kind and positive person. Some folks even say they can see my halo, ha. 

They can’t believe it, Cinder your a Raiders fan? Yep.

I’ve tried to switch but I just can’t do it. So I decided that it’s good to have a one devilish thing about me. I’m a Raiders fan, with all their penalties, losses and meanness. 

So what’s an East Coast girl to do today? I’ve weighed my options and decided to root for the 49ers. And I hope against hope that some team can beat The Damn Patriots. 

Fit Tip: Be exuberant as you root for your team, it’s good exercise!

Thanks and Go 49ers!

CinderImageAbout Cinder Ernst:

With 25 years of experience, renowned coach and trainer Cinder Ernst has been proclaimed as, “The Leading Expert in weight neutral fitness.”

Cinder has been helping people meet their exercise goals without shame or dieting for over twenty years. Her ground breaking work has been featured on Good Morning American, NPR and the San Francisco Chronicle to name a few.

It’s time for Cinder to bring her brilliant approach to people everywhere who want to be happy, healthy and living life. You can enjoy the benefit of Cinder’s wisdom and experience right now! See more at cinderernst.com

Lower The Bar

I am trained as a coach to help you do what you said you would do, and to do it with a gentle joy. Let me repeat, not just do what you said you would, but to do it with a gentle joy. Often you must Lower The Bar to get this result!

The way to accomplish this is to just take the next small step. A small step gives you a way to proceed gently. When you hook the step up to something or someone that is important to you, you will experience joy.

I have a great and easy way for you to do this, by email in less than 5 min/day. http://cinderernst.com/free-mini-class

For example:

If you say today I will dance to a favorite song in the kitchen today because it helps my mood and that helps me be a better mom.

Or you could say today I will try to fit in 30 minutes on the Stairmaster because I have  not had time to exercise at all this week and I know I should. 

Notice the quality of each statement and pick the direction you would like to go in.

Fit Tip: Just take a small step, how about a “kitchen dance”?

Love, Cinder

About Cinder Ernst:

With 25 years of experience, renowned coach and trainer Cinder Ernst has been proclaimed as, “The Leading Expert in weight neutral fitness.”

Cinder has been helping people meet their exercise goals without shame or dieting for over twenty years. Her ground breaking work has been featured on Good Morning American, NPR and the San Francisco Chronicle to name a few.

It’s time for Cinder to bring her brilliant approach to people everywhere who want to be happy, healthy and living life. You can enjoy the benefit of Cinder’s wisdom and experience right now! See more at cinderernst.com

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Yesterday I told you that humans don’t need motivation (although it’s very nice, it’s not necessary) to get important stuff done. What we do need is a way to consistently take small steps, even when motivation is not present; maybe especially when motivation is not present. I gave you a way to do that with a link to a free email mini class http://cinderernst.com/free-mini-class

Yesterday’s blog sparked a discussion about the dreaded “vicious cycle”: When something feels insurmountable and you just can’t make yourself take a step at all. Then not taking the step makes you feel worse so then you’re really not taking the step…and so on. What do you do when you notice a vicious cycle?

Fit Tip, be willing to be gentle.

Love, Cinder

About Cinder Ernst:

With 25 years of experience, renowned coach and trainer Cinder Ernst has been proclaimed as, “The Leading Expert in weight neutral fitness.”

Cinder has been helping people meet their exercise goals without shame or dieting for over twenty years. Her ground breaking work has been featured on Good Morning American, NPR and the San Francisco Chronicle to name a few.

It’s time for Cinder to bring her brilliant approach to people everywhere who want to be happy, healthy and living life. You can enjoy the benefit of Cinder’s wisdom and experience right now! See more at cinderernst.com

I hear a lot: I’m just not motivated to exercise,  or If only I could get motivated I would work out.

Motivation is a state of mind, it doesn’t do anything. You do something.  Sometimes you must take an action (small is good) even when you are not motivated. If you wait until you are motivated you may just keep waiting and waiting.

Nothing wrong with motivation, it’s just not what gets things done. Action gets things done.

Would you be interested in learning how to take action (small is good) consistently? Are you willing to do it whether you are motivated or not? Would it be ok if it were easier than you thought?

Good. Sign up here for my free mini class and learn how to get going consistently in a sane and savvy way.http://cinderernst.com/free-mini-class

Fit Tip: get up from your chair, it’s an exercise called a “Get Up”. Do a few extras right now. Everything counts.

Thanks and love

About Cinder Ernst:

With 25 years of experience, renowned coach and trainer Cinder Ernst has been proclaimed as, “The Leading Expert in weight neutral fitness.”

Cinder has been helping people meet their exercise goals without shame or dieting for over twenty years. Her ground breaking work has been featured on Good Morning American, NPR and the San Francisco Chronicle to name a few.

It’s time for Cinder to bring her brilliant approach to people everywhere who want to be happy, healthy and living life. You can enjoy the benefit of Cinder’s wisdom and experience right now! See more at cinderernst.com

Nothings working

Oh my

It’s taking all my skills and tools to stay in today.

Murphys Law is in full effect.

I just need to write this blog, sign papers for my new house, then I’m off to the beach with the dogs. My brain needs a rest.

Maybe I need a pop tart to get me through?

Won’t help. I’m glad I know that.

Yeah, I just need to put everything down for a bit…can’t not do the house stuff…ok just the house stuff and no more work today. No more church stuff today. No more, just rest and rejuvenate.

Fit Tip for today, sometimes enough is enough…take a break!

Thanks for listening, and love, Cinder

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